Save Your Marriage Today
Are you worried that your marriage is about to end? Noticed the typical signs of a cheating spouse, and feel like you are about to be replaced by your partner? Before you start confronting them, make sure you gather enough proof that they are in an affair. This doesn’t mean trying to observe more signs of cheating, it means actual verifiable proof that they can’t lie their way out of. No proof leads to a yelling competition, a he said she said war of words. Hold the urge to confront until you are well equipped with facts.
To Save your marriage, you will first need to stop an affair. Here are some ways that you may use to catch your spouse cheating.
3 Ways to Catch A Cheating Spouse
1. Emotional affairs are a common cause of relationship breakups, and the best way to catch an emotional affair is the same place an emotional affair begins: the internet. You have two ways of monitoring your spouse’s internet behavior. First is by installing a key logger and collecting the data it provides (websites visited, passwords, and anything typed on the keyboard), second is by using your browser’s features to log the visited websites. The key logger, if you have the spare cash, would be the best way to catch them cheating. There’s no lying your way out of data collected by a key logger. The second method will only work if your spouse is not tech savvy. To set your browser to monitor the sites it’s visited, press CTRL+H on either Google chrome, firefox, or I.E. This should show you what sites have been recently viewed. Go to tools > options > privacy to further customize the data your browser stores; you may even opt for the “remember passwords” option so you can login your spouse’s emails.
2. Tired of getting that same old “working overtime” excuse? Want to know whether your spouse makes any stops between home and work? The two methods you can use to monitor where they go while out of the house are : GPS car trackers, and keeping a daily log of their car’s miles. The GPS car tracker will allow you to monitor your spouse’s car via Google Maps, so there’s pretty much no way to lie out of this method. The record keeping, although less reliable than the GPS tracker, still works in telling you whether or not your spouse is lying. Whenever a spouse gives the “overtime” excuse, you can compare it with your daily records. If they travel 30 miles a day, and on their overtime days they travel 40+ instead of the regular 30, you know you are being deceived; overtime means more hours in the office, not longer travel time.
3. Another method of catching a cheating spouse is by leaving voice recorders on places that they may use the phone or cell phone. The best places to keep a recorder is under a car seat, near the home landlines, inside the bathroom, and right next to a computer (for voice chats). Be sure to get one of those voice recorders that have the automatic voice activation record function, so you don’t waste any storage space by blankly recording even when there’s nothing to record.
To save your marriage, you really must end the affair first, or confirm that there isn’t an affair. Gathering proof to either prove or disprove an affair will help you save your marriage.