Being single and dating can sometimes be challenging and it’s hard to know who to choose for a partner. So what are some ways you can tell if someone is right for you?
The first thing you should ask yourself, can you trust this person? Trust in a relationship is at the top of almost everyone’s list so if you’re not sure or you’re getting a strong sense that this person cannot be trusted down the road, your intuition might be telling you something. You do not want to be searching how do i file for divorce at any point down the road and i’m sure marriage and divorce are the last things on your mind when first meeting someone. However, the point is, the first handful of dates are the crucial time to really pay attention to the little things.
The second thing is, you should take mental notes of how they talk about their ex. If they’re still talking about an ex ALL the time, chances are they’re not over them. Also, pay attention to the negative things. For example, a new guy I started dating was telling me that every single girlfriend he’s had in the past has been jealous. Now, can it be that ALL his girlfriends just happen to be jealous people or is it more likely he’s a big flirt.
The last thing, really pay attention on your dates to how they treat your waiter and other people who work in the customer service industry. If they’re rude to them and/or mean, this is a red flag because at some point it’s likely they will treat you the same exact way.
Dating can be a fun experience but if you’re looking for something serious, just pay attention to the little things and you might find the person you’ve been looking for.